Ideal Date?
Val's POV: My perfect Brooklyite date is: Any time I get to have Tae all to myself. It truly doesn’t matter what I am doing just as long as I’m with her. But, since I am keeping the theme with the blog going If I truly had to sum up an ideal date it would go like this: Outside it would be raining. I don’t know why exactly but rain just does something to me. Inside my world would be simply perfect. We’d be dressed in our lounge wear. Tae with a tank top, wife beater or sweats ( because even when we’re not fucking, I love to admire her physique, my eye candy) her hair pulled back in a slick tight ponytail with her reading glasses on ( damn those glasses…lol) I’d be wearing one of her t-shirts with nothing under. Bare legs and feet. Clean face no makeup, freshly washed curls. I find immense pleasure and peace in our intimacy so the setting would be us on the couch holding hands & cuddling like teenagers. Hunger wouldn’t go unnoticed because we’d have steamed crab legs with lemon butter on hand to snack on while watching Back to back tivo’d episodes of our favorite shows. We’d flush the delectable taste down with ice cold Smirnoff ice. During commercials we’d laugh hysterically, quote and share our views about whatever it is we are watching. Merging our minds. We’d share secrets and stories between interludes. Talk about our dreams and desires, I’d look into her eyes and see the glimmer I put there…one of love. At some point I’d curl up on her chest and we’d take a nap on the couch in that position, remote dangling from her hand. When we woke up we’d retire to our bed and snuggle.
Sex optional
Tae's POV: *rubs hands together* Let’s see… the ideal date is composed of three elements: playtime, lunchtime, and night time. To me that is the perfect recipe for a wonderful day spent with the one you love, my baby. Playtime incorporates some activity that allows you to laugh and see the kid come out in a person. This is the time where a physical activity can be locked in place for flirtatious touching while keeping it innocent. Therefore, I nominate laser tag as a great starter for a date. What better way to get the day going then with a little competition, playfully running into one another while remaining lighthearted. Definitely an ice breaker, especially for first dates. As for me and my baby, it just gives me a reason to let her beat me... so I get my kisses afterwards.
Next on this list, lunch time. It’d be awesome to go to a spot that serves foreign foods that neither one of you have tasted. Why? This strategically links a new experience with the person you shared it with. Whether the food was tasty or disgusting, it still allows for a couple to experience something cultural together.
In between lunch and dinner, a nice walk around central park or a boardwalk could set the mood for the evening. By this time (for first dates) a couple should feel comfortable enough opening up to one another after all they’ve experienced. A couple that has been together could take this time to reminisce. Walks allow the perfect setting for alone time.
To end, dinner at a spoken word joint would wrap up the evening smoothly. Appreciating a third party’s art, in addition to appreciating one another’s company, is only a bonus. Dimmed lights, smooth snapping, jazz tunes and the mature atmosphere that comes with spoken word places (like Bus Boys & Poets) is essential to preserving the sexy of a date. You have to end it classy, with a tinge of sensuality. Yeah, I like that.
Sex mandatory. Hehe.
